@jessmahler @janellecshane weird. Very "he who shall not be named". I never really got the whole bowdlerisation of stuff (like "G*n violence"), all you're doing is admitting you can't face up to it while still putting a phrase out that's just as triggering to anyone effected by it.
More pragmatically, people who are effected by it can't effectively filter a dozen different un-sayings. There are things I filter and I'd rather people just said it straight so I can more easily avoid it mechanically.