my general aesthetic is
2) lots of pockets
3) avoid being noticed
so i wind up being an agender person who presents male. and i fully admit the privilege of not having dysphora and looking male.
i just want more room for non-cis people who don’t have the emotionally energy/style motivation to design a presentation that communicates our genders.
YouTube i think you can just copy the channel URL into most feed readers.
and Mastodon's feed URL format is https://[instance]/@[username].atom -> https://firstname.lastname@example.org
That's all i've found so far... may pin this toot in lieu of a blog post :)
Pocket Casts syncing server is back up! yaya!
Skimming through a Code of Conduct RESPONSE manual written by Valerie Aurora and Mary Gardiner... seems good and also needed. https://files.frameshiftconsulting.com/books/cocguide.pdf
Boundaries can help you carve space in your life for self care. They're important.
why am i 100% with people having public Amazon Wish Lists in case people in meatspace or online want to buy them things and need ideas...
but then follow with "i don't want to support Amazon more than i have to, but hey i have a website" -> "i could just put a wish list there" and that feels like a selfish jerk page to have on my own site?
(ignore for the moment that i don't expect anyone would buy something for me from a public wish list on any site)
Links post for 2018-12-03 to 2018-12-09 https://mjpaxton.com/2018/12/09/links-post-for-2018-12-03-to-2018-12-09/
A and i are on the “punk-ass book jockeys” episode of Parks and Rec 😂
Love is playing through Donkey Kong Country in 4 hours with your partner
Have just switched off the IFTTT recipes that were feeding into Tumblr.
Bartlett clip: “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called Children of God.”
Josh: “Yes, it’s Matthew: 5:7.”
Hrishi: “Actually it’s Matthew: 5:9.”
Josh: “Well, he may look taller from where you are.”
things they don’t warn you about relationship anarchy/stepping off the relationship escalator: “do close friends count as partners?” tipsy musings
not in a “you owe me sex / friendzone” way but in a “what even is a partner” way
(the friendzone is a great place to be, i never dislike being there)
(and i wouldn’t impose labels on someone without having that conversation)
(maybe this is a #relationshipanarchy thing)
(or maybe it’s just the whisky tooting)
ok, IG trailer for Glass, you’ve convinced me.
honestly though, mastodon instances are run and moderated by real people who care about the network, to the point of often paying their own money out-of-pocket to run their instances.
the *one* time i've had to report a post, my instance admin messaged me directly to let me know the action taken about it.
don't be shy to report. it works here. the rules aren't there just to keep things advertiser-friendly.
welcome to mastodon. don't be a dick. hug your local mods/admins.
can we talk about how many books have “:a novel” at the end of the title?