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sweet pandemonium ๐ŸŒŠ @guerrillarain

"It's so hard to meet girls that are into ____"

maybe we avoid you because you say insufferable shit like that

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@guerrillarain
The problem is that only women call them out on their BS. Yet another example of passive enabling from men.

@guerrillarain "it's hard to meet girls who are into ____" is a total lie, but that's beside the point here, tbh

there's likely a lot going on behind all that, culturally, psychologically, probably closeted things of various types as well, at least some of the time. but that gets right back into "why is it women's responsibility to be there to unpack all that". they should be doing that for each other

@guerrillarain even the "massive fuckery and abuse" new age groups i've known did a better job than incels are doing. which is impressively sad

@shoutcacophony @guerrillarain

I was really puzzled by the term *incel* until I realized how hard it would be to compress a phrase like, "I'm horny but homicidal because I deserve perfection and it's your fault I can't get it" into a single word or acronym.

@guerrillarain It's so hard to meet girls that are into insecure gatekeeping.

@dantebrevity @guerrillarain

"It's so hard to meet girls who are fifteen years younger than me and also look like supermodels but without any ego and without siccing the law on my whiny ass."