I sometimes forget how far I've stepped from traditional feminine presentation until I get out of my usual routines and people who I usually spend time with.

No one made a fuss over it at Thanksgiving, but my sisters who are both very feminine serve as markers to measure myself against, my very young niece lumped me with "the boys," and every flight attendant on every flight I took has called me sir.

Honestly, it's been A+.

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