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Remember, pals, the demand to be NICE is a tool society uses to keep mostly-women from advocating for themselves and others.
Nice is for suckers. Be brave instead.
@andrhia there's also a big chasm between being nice and doing good. They are not the same thing. "Nice" means "convenient for me" to a lot of people. Advocate, do good, don't be nice about it.