minor trans related discourse, transmisia Show more
also obligatory reminder that trans men, transmasc, and nonbinary people are not 'fem adjacent' unless they themselves identify as such and implying as such is transmisia.
The True Facts of Detrasition and why if it actually happens!, NHS, GRS, HRT, Abuse Show more
GOOD ON NHS DEBUNKING THIS MYTH.
"Debunking one of the biggest transphobic myths.
Less than 1% of trans people ever detransition, and all of them cite lack of family support as being the major contributor to this rather than them being ‘confused’ about their identity, and a third of them then go on to retransition later on
Internet Nazis: I was bullied in middle school so clearly I had no choice but to become a Nazi :( :( :(
Every queer and PoC kid: uhhh yeahhhhhhhhhh, about that
an advantage of labels is that they help people identify themselves, find resources and similar people for mutual support
a disadvantage of labels is that they can come to be elevated over the experience in question. questions like "am i trans?" or "am i gay?" are fundamentally flawed because the real questions should be internal, e.g.
1. what do I really want out of sex, love, gender, etc.?
2. how does my current life reflect these desires?
3. how can i make my current life reflect them more?
semi-lewd, sex mention Show more
Feel free to tell me off if I'm being sex-negative. I genuinely want to improve as a person, so let me know if I'm fucking up.
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